Life with the Grays

BUILDER'S
CIRCLE

God Is Building.
We Are Yielding.

Builder's Circle is a community of people learning to yield every area of life to the King as our Master Builder. We're learning together to surrender our plans, listen for His direction, obey what He says, and faithfully participate in what He is building.

Learning to build with God, not apart from Him. We work. We create. We steward. We obey. But God is the Builder, and we have the privilege of participating in what He is building.

Inside Builder's Circle

Take a Seat at the Table.

Builder’s Circle is a community of people learning what it means to yield every area of life to the King. Together, we’re listening, learning, encouraging one another, and discovering what it looks like to let God lead and build.

The Master Builder

God Is the Builder.

“Unless the LORD builds a house, the work of the builders is wasted.”
Psalm 127:1 NLT

We don’t want to strive to build something for God apart from God. We want to surrender our plans, desires, ideas, families, businesses, finances, creativity, ministries, and assignments to Him and allow Him to lead.

God is building. We are yielding.

For Builder's Circle Members

The Builder's Vault

The Builder’s Vault is the home for member content you can return to along the journey. Builders receive access to weekly teaching replays and other Vault content added over time.

Weekly Teaching Replays

Beginning in November, our weekly online teachings will be open to everyone. Come learn with us live as we share what God is teaching our family about faith, family, relationships, stewardship, purpose, obedience, and everyday Kingdom life. Builder’s Circle members can return to those teachings through replays inside the Builder’s Vault.

Builder's Circle Community

Builder’s Circle gives you a place to stay connected beyond the live teachings and walk alongside others who are learning to surrender their plans, listen for God’s direction, and follow where He leads.

Walk With Us From the Beginning

You’re not arriving after Life with the Grays is fully formed. You’re walking alongside our family from the beginning as we listen, yield, obey, and discover what God desires to bring forth through this assignment.

Learn to Yield to the Master Builder

This is bigger than watching what God does through our family. Together, we’re learning to move away from striving and toward surrender, yielding our plans, desires, decisions, families, finances, businesses, creativity, and every area of life to the King.

This Is the Circle

We’re not inviting you into something that is already finished. We’re inviting you to take a seat at the table while we’re learning too. Through teaching, community, and the Builder’s Vault, we’ll continue listening, learning, and following where God leads. The King is the Master Builder. We simply want to remain yielded in His hands.

Builder's Circle

Why Builder's Circle Exists

A Different Way to Build.

We believe God never intended for us to carry the weight of building our lives apart from Him.

The world can teach us to make the plan, chase the vision, work harder, push through, and carry the responsibility of making everything happen ourselves.

But we are learning another way.

We are learning to surrender our plans, yield our desires, listen for God’s direction, and obey what He says. Sometimes He gives us the next step without showing us the entire road. Sometimes He redirects us from what we thought the journey would look like. Sometimes He asks us to wait.

In every season, we want to remember that the responsibility of being the Master Builder was never ours to carry. Our part is to remain yielded, listen for His instruction, obey what He says, and faithfully steward what He places in our hands.

Builder’s Circle is beginning alongside Life with the Grays because our family is learning how to live this way in real time. We do not have all of this figured out, and we are not inviting people into something that is already finished. We are inviting others who desire the same thing to go deeper with us as God leads.

Our weekly online teachings will give everyone an opportunity to learn with us. Builder’s Circle creates a deeper place to continue that journey through teaching replays in the Builder’s Vault, exclusive Q&A access, additional resources, and ongoing connection as we continue learning what it means to yield every area of life to the King.

The World's Way

Carry the weight yourself.

Decide what you want, make the plan, push until it happens, and measure success by what you are able to produce.

The Kingdom Way

Yield to the Master Builder.

Surrender your plans, listen for His direction, obey what He says, faithfully do the part He gives you, and trust Him with what only He can do.

Yielding does not mean doing nothing. It means refusing to take God's place. Our responsibility is to surrender, listen, obey, and faithfully participate while trusting the Master Builder to do what only He can do.

What May Grow From the Table

We’re Beginning With the Conversation.

Life with the Grays is beginning with real conversations, weekly online teachings, and the things God is teaching our family in real time. As we continue to yield to Him, we believe some of those teachings may grow into resources that can serve people well beyond the Circle.

Books & Devotionals

A teaching, testimony, or conversation may eventually become a book, devotional, study, or written resource as God gives it room to grow.

Courses & Workshops

Some subjects may need more space to develop into workshops, classes, courses, or deeper teaching experiences that help people apply what God is revealing.

Family & Kingdom Life Tools

Conversations around marriage, parenting, finances, business, faith, relationships, and everyday life may become practical tools that serve individuals and families.

Media & Conversations

Some teachings may continue through video, interviews, digital content, live conversations, and other forms of storytelling that carry the message further.

Gatherings

God may lead certain conversations beyond our online teachings and into Pop-Ups, workshops, conferences, or other spaces where people can gather and grow together.

Music & Creativity

Songs, stories, visual ideas, and other creative expressions may emerge as we steward what God places within our family and follow His direction.

Things We Haven’t Imagined Yet

We want to leave room for God to lead us into resources, conversations, opportunities, and expressions that we would never have planned on our own.

We’re Leaving the Blueprint Open.

We don’t know everything Life with the Grays will become, and we don’t want to pretend that we do. Our desire is to remain yielded to the Master Builder and allow Him to determine what grows from what He is teaching us.

You’re not joining a finished library. You’re joining us at the beginning, with access to the Builder’s Vault as it grows and a deeper place to continue learning, asking questions, and following where the Master Builder leads. Anything for the King.

Join Builder's Circle

Your Life Belongs to the King Too

What Has God Placed in Your Hands?

Builder’s Circle isn’t only about watching what God does through our family. It’s about learning to recognize where He is leading in your life too.

What God is asking of you may look completely different from what He is asking of us. He may be leading you in your family, marriage, finances, business, ministry, creativity, relationships, career, community, or an area you’re still learning how to understand.

The goal is not to look at what someone else is doing and try to reproduce it. The goal is to become more yielded to the Master Builder, recognize what He has placed in your hands, hear His direction, and faithfully respond to what He is asking of you.

As we share what God is teaching our family through the weekly teachings and Builder’s Circle, we want those conversations to continually turn all of us back toward Him and the question: Father, what are You saying to me?

What has God placed in your hands to faithfully steward?

What is He asking you to surrender or yield to Him?

What would obedience look like in this season?

As you walk alongside us, we want to continually point you back to the Master Builder and whatever He is asking you to surrender, steward, and obey.

Walking Alongside the Assignment

Your Support Helps Us Stay Ready to Say Yes.

Builder’s Circle is first a community of people learning to yield to the Master Builder. As you learn and grow with us, your membership also helps create room for our family to respond when God gives the next instruction.

We don’t know everything God will ask our family to do through Life with the Grays, and we don’t want to run ahead of Him trying to manufacture the next thing. Our desire is to listen, remain yielded, and move when He says move.

Sometimes His direction may lead to a teaching, book, devotional, workshop, gathering, creative work, trip, conversation, or resource. Other times it may lead somewhere we did not expect at all.

As Builder’s Circle grows, membership helps create practical capacity for our family to continue developing what God places in our hands and responding faithfully to the opportunities and instructions He gives us.

So while Builder’s Circle gives members a place to learn, ask questions, access the Vault, and continue growing with us, there is another beautiful part of it too: your membership helps us remain ready to say yes to what God asks our family to do next.

Develop teachings and resources as God gives them to us.

Create room for gatherings, workshops, conversations, and discipleship.

Serve families, churches, communities, and people God places in our path.

Go when God opens doors for our family to travel and serve.

Remain flexible enough to respond when His next instruction comes.

The Heart Behind It

Some people will walk with us. Some will help send us. Some will open doors. Some will pray. Builder’s Circle gives us a place to learn and grow together, and your membership also helps our family continue responding to what God places before us. Anything for the King.

Builder's Circle Memberships

Choose How You Want
to Go Deeper.

Builder’s Circle is one community with two ways to participate. Start with the Circle, or choose Plus for greater access to our family, exclusive content, books, resources, and more.

Builder's Circle

Go Deeper With Us.

Walk alongside our family through the Builder’s Vault, weekly teaching replays, and our private community as we learn to listen, obey, steward well, and faithfully participate in what God is building.

$11 / month

What's Included

  • Everything in Do Life With Us Receive everything included in our free community.
  • Builder's Vault Access the private Builder’s Vault and member content added over time.
  • Weekly Teaching Replays Watch replays of our weekly online teachings inside the Builder’s Vault.
  • Builder's Circle Community Connect with us and other Builders inside the private Builder’s Circle community.
  • Help Carry the Assignment Your membership helps our family remain ready to respond to what God places before us.

Builder's Circle Plus

Go Even Deeper.

Get everything included in Builder’s Circle, plus greater access to our family, exclusive content, and a growing library of books and resources designed to help you yield every area of life to the Master Builder.

$55 / month

Everything in Builder's Circle, Plus

  • Builder's Circle Q&As Get exclusive access to Builder’s Circle Q&As and opportunities to submit your questions.
  • Additional Builder Content Access additional videos, conversations, and teaching content created exclusively for Plus members.
  • Included Books & Devotionals Access selected digital books and devotionals included with Builder’s Circle Plus.
  • Included Digital Resources Access selected workbooks, guides, studies, and other digital resources included with your membership.
  • Builder Discounts Receive special discounts on eligible books, resources, events, and other offerings.
  • Growing Plus Library Access the included Builder’s Circle Plus library as it grows while your membership remains active.

About Weekly Teachings

Our weekly online teachings will be open to everyone beginning in November. Builder’s Circle members receive access to the teaching replays inside the Builder’s Vault. Builder’s Circle Plus members receive those same benefits, along with the additional Plus benefits listed above.

God is building. We are yielding.
Anything for the King.